Saturday, November 21, 2015


As the calendar changes over every year from October to November, there is a shift in our home.  A changing of gears, with all the feelings and emotions of this wonderful time of year.  A time of year for bringing out all of our warmer clothing, enjoying cooler weather, watching the leaves change colors and focusing on being thankful for all that God has done for us.
Taking the time to jump in puddles! Big jump up!
Big splash down.
Wonderful wet fun!
Life slows down for us in the fall.  Most of the yearly doctors appointments have been met.  By the time fall gets here, we are in a good routine for home schooling.  I don't have as much yard and garden work to do.  We have time to do extra projects and the children can play outside longer in the cooler weather. 
Water and dirt makes this stuff?  Who knew!
We have time for home school trips, fall cleaning, and lots of' "one on one" time for the children and myself.  I have time to reflect.  I look around me and see all that God has done for us and I am humbled.  We live a very busy life.  A life where every moment of every day is full.  A life where sometimes I don't know how I am going to get it all done.  A life where many days go by, where we never have a break and at times, things can be very stressful and hard...but thru it all...every moment of every day is good.  We live such a rich and full life raising all of these children.  I see miracles unfold every single day.  To witness children learn and grow.  To see them overcome fears and struggles.  The hugs and snuggles, tears and joy!  It is such an honor to be blessed by God with each and every child we have.  God choose Tim and I, to be the ones to write the pages, in the days, of the story of their lives.  He choose us to help them heal, shape who they will be and even thought it is not always easy, it is truly amazing to be a part of it all.  All the Glory to God!
Fun with leaves!
Such simple happiness!
Sweet boy!
God is so awesome.  He knows what He called us to do and knows it is not always easy.  He gives us what we need every day, to accomplish what needs to be done and he provides for our family abundantly in miraculous ways.  In the last month he has blessed us with a new oven, (our old one had died and we were cooking for our large family out of our toaster oven), hay for the winter for our goats, ballet for Carolyn, our lift in our bus broke and has been fixed, just to name a few.  Big needs met in miraculous ways, that happen in a way, that we know it was from God and only God.  Needs that no one knew about and have been met over and over again, year after year, in huge ways.  Every time with Gods finger print on it, in a way that can not be denied.  Blessed...though we don't deserve it, thought we make mistakes, though we are not perfect.  God, the creator of the universe, cares enough about the details of our lives, to reach down from heaven and bless us.  Amazing, humbling...So this is a time of year that we ponder and do some deep thinking, that we stop to take the time to say, "Thank you God!" "To you be all glory and honor and praise!" Not only for salvation but for all of the gifts and blessings in and on our lives.  I am forever grateful.

May the Lord God, in heaven above, be with you this November.  May He show you His powerful hand in a big way, drawing you closer to Him, anointing you for His calling and purpose.

Colossians 3:15-17  And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.  Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.  And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.


Saturday, November 7, 2015

National Adoption Awareness Month 2015

It seems they have a day or month to honor, remember or bring awareness to everything now days. There are so many, that I often don't even know about them all.  There is one, that I do know about and I always try to write about and that is National Adoption Awareness Month. (November) To read my past posts on it, you can read them here (My 2013 in depth post with resources) and  here (My 2014 post).

I write about it because it is dear to my heart and because so many people don't know about the huge number of children that need families or the many ways one can help these children.  So many children will never know the love of family and that is so sad and unnecessary in the world we live in today.  Many of them overseas live in orphanages and once they reach a certain age, the door closes to them forever, to ever be adopted.  The age is usually around age 14, sometimes much younger.  Its even harder for children with special needs to find a family. 

There is one fact from the Bible about this topic and that is, that we are all supposed to take care of the orphans. (Psalms 68: 5-6) (James 1:27) That does not mean that we are all called to adopt an orphan but we are all called to care for them on a personal level.  The truth is, that no matter what you are called to do to care for one, it will make a huge difference for that child.  Please take the time to sit and pray about what your roll is supposed to be in caring for the orphans of this world.  Prayer changes things in big ways.  You might be called to pray for an orphan, by having God lead you to an orphans photo on line, printing their picture out and putting it on your fridge.  Every time you see that child's picture, stop and say a prayer for their forever family to find them.  You might be called to donate towards the adoption of a child or to help fund someone elses adoption.  You might be called to minister to a family that you know locally, that has already adopted, by mentoring one of their children, babysitting, buying school supplies, bringing a meal once in a while or simply asking if they have a need.  All of these suggestions are being Christs hands and feet to an orphan, help in big ways and will mean the world to a child.

If you think about it, we were all orphans before God adopted us and made us new creatures in Christ Jesus.  It made all the world of difference for us and changed our lives forever, by the sacrifice that was made for us.  Yes, sacrifice.  Adoption and serving God is a sacrifice.  Giving our whole life back to Jesus because He gave His whole life for us.

If you read through the Bible, God did not call people to do logical things.  Most of them felt under qualified and hesitant.  Many questioned if this was really what He wanted them to do. Many were not treated well or made fun of, for doing what God called them to do.  Many of the things He called them to do were hard and changed their lives forever but they were in Gods will and were blessed for it.  Moses felt under qualified to lead the children of Israel to the promised land.  He could have lived a life of luxury in Egypt but he gave up his life for God and in the Bible, he is called a friend of God.  I want to be Gods friend.  I want to always be in His will and be doing His work because I love Him and am grateful that He provided a way for me to be saved.  He usually calls us to do things that we know we can't do, because then we know we did not do them in and of ourselves but through His hand and power.  All the glory to God!

If you are interested in praying for a child that needs a family, here are a few websites.

Children needing homes in America.  Search for children by state under the Meet The Children tab (AdoptUSKids).

Children with special needs needing homes in other countries.  You can also donate to their adoptions on this site, so someone might be able to adopt them because some of the expense has been paid already. Search under Waiting Children tab. (Reece;s Rainbow)

International children needing homes.  I am not affiliated with them in any way or have ever used them to adopt but they do have a photo listing if you make a password. 

If you are interested in helping those that are in process of adopting and are fund raising, here are a few families I know of, that are in the process of it all.

The Musser Family at The Blessing of Verity blog.  A precious family used by God to bless so many. 

Thomas and Kats adoption fundraising for Timothy here at Everlasting Momentum.   Serving the Lord thru adoption.

Linny Saunders at the blog called A Place Called Simplicity. Adoption of JonWesley. You can contact her here.

If you are interested in reading about families, that follow Gods leading by adopting, you can go to any of these blogs and pray for their precious families.  There are many more on the internet.

The Road Down Home

No Greater Joy Mom

Theres No Place Like Home 

May the Lord God in Heaven make His plans for your life clear to you.  May He lead and guide you to serve Him in all you do.  May He pour out His abundant blessings upon you as you live and grow in Him.

Joshua 24:15  And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.




Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Fun Photos!

We have been very busy lately but have been able to get out in the nice fall weather and enjoy some of the things going on in our area.

A local church had a fall festival that we took the children to.  The weather was just wonderful. 

They had a swing ride for the very young children.  Timothy loved it!

They had several blow up slides and bounce houses for them to enjoy.

William, Carolyn and Elizabeth only had one thing on their mind.  The Cake Walk.  We try not to eat a whole lot of sweets and they wanted to bring home a cake and figured the odds were in their favor, if they all participated.  William wanted to carry Kinsley around a bit, so she got to do the cake walk with him.  They did end up with a cake by the way!  :)

Some very nice young men saw me with Antonio.  They asked, if they found a way to get him up onto the hay ride, could he go?  Antonio was so excited.  They got four strong guys together, took some of the hay bales off and lifted up Antonio, in his chair, onto the hay ride.  It made his day!  Bless those men really well oh Lord!
Antonio is doing better over all.  He has good days and harder days, where he does not feel strong and sleeps a lot but over all is improving slowly.  It is so good to hear him talk and that smile, its back most days and warms me through and through.  Tim and William sat by him to keep him safe.

Carolyn said she had never been on a hay ride before, so was excited as well.

The very same day was the yearly antique engine and tractor show.  We try to go every year.

The girls by the pink Farmall.

Timothy being his cute self.

The big guys.  :)  They love looking at all the antique engines and jonny poppers.  It is so interesting and ingenious how things were done in the past.

We took Timothy to the Chattanooga Aquarium for his birthday, so here are a few pictures from that day.  My sweet little boys.

When Billy gets tired of walking, he climbs up into Antonio's lap to rest a bit.  Antonio loves it.  It has been a long while since he had siblings climbing into his lap for a hug or to sit a spell. He is enjoying having littles around again.  Antonio is a great big brother.

My ladies!

Zeke had a butterfly land on him in the butterfly room.

My sweet Kinsley in the penguin exhibit.  A miracle of God...she walked through almost the whole aquarium with someone holding her hand!

William with the river behind him.
It feels so good to get out and do some things as a family again.  Here's hoping for fewer appointments over the next many months and some restful days at home.

May God be with you as you live and grow in Him.  May He lead and guide you in all you do, helping you do His work all the days of your life.

Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.



Wednesday, October 21, 2015

Happy Birthday Timothy!

When you came to us, with your brother, you were just one year old.  You would not make eye contact with us for more than a second, let me comfort you or feed you your bottle.  Your whole life had been turned upside down.  You were in pain from your staff wounds, confused and you were detoxing drugs.  I did what I could to comfort you.  I let you carry around your bottle and sleep with it like you were used to doing.  We took it very slow.  I had not had a baby in so many years that I just wanted to sit and hold you, comfort you and love on you but you pushed us away.  You needed time.

Very slowly you started to let me feed you your bottle and rock you.  I would  feed you your bottle so you had to look me in the eyes as you ate.  You began to relax.  Not soon after that, you let me start to sing to you as well and liked it.  You began to bond and enjoy being fed and loved on.  You became VERY bonded to me.  Praise God!  Soon you and your brother began to seek out being held by everyone else in the family as well.
You and your brother cried and slept a lot for the first many weeks you were with us but once you had been here for a while, you decided you loved us and we started to work on things you and your brother had never done before, like sit in a high chair for a meal or eat solid food.

To learn to play with toys and have fun!

You had your very own mommy who spent time with you and you were not going to let her out of your sight!  I loved that you choose to be with me constantly for love and comfort.  We both ate it up.  You melt me with your blue/grey eyes and strawberry curls.

For the first time ever, you knew the love of having a daddy and still to this day, get so excited when you hear him come home from work.  You run to the door to get picked up by him.

It took a while but you learned car seats were not for restraining but for going fun places in.

You learned how to behave out in public...

and got to play in the pool a lot.

Carolyn and you became swinging partners, swinging outside together every day that it is nice.

You love having so many brothers and sisters and they love you!

Even with your little quirks and behavioral issues, you are the sweetest, little, loving, guy.

You grew so quickly and lost all that baby chub.  You had a birthday and your first Thanksgiving with us.  You grew a gorgeous head of angel curls that I just could not cut for a long time.
I mean...could you cut this hair?

Adoption day was one of the greatest days of my life!

Well, my sweet boy...You just turned three years old on me! We took you to the aquarium...

And then to Toys R Us to pick out a gift.

One of your favorite shows to watch is Oswald the Octopus.  Aunt "S"  did a great job making your cake!  You were so happy to see him on there! 

Thank you Aunt "S" and Uncle "B" for all you do for us!

Timothy, we love you so much!  You are such a wonderful, loving, son!

1 Corinthians 13:4-8  Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,  Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;  Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;  Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.  Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.

Love, Dad, mom, Stephen, Antonio, William, Carolyn, Zeke, Elizabeth, Billy, Kinsley and Baby "A"!

Sunday, October 4, 2015

Where We Are Today.

Today, I am going to do a little update to let everyone know how we are doing lately. Our life is always busier than the average family but God is always faithful and true.  I am so grateful that He carries us and gives us strength to do what needs to be done.
I guess I will start with an Antonio update.  Two weeks ago Antonio had a huge set back.  He, over the course of three days, slowly reverted back to the way he was just after the Botox injections.  He could not smile, eat, talk or move his body.  I took him back to the neurologist.  This neurologist is at a loss.  He has never seen this with Botox before.  They did another CT scan to rule out a shunt failure and more blood work to rule out infection.  All came back normal.  He is scheduled to have an EEG to look for seizure activity.  He has never had seizures before, so I feel this is not an issue.  I was so frustrated with this neurologist after the appointment.  It is plain, before his face, as to what has happened and he will not say it and admit it.  That limits the amount of help I can get for Antonio, as his insurance is going to want a reason for his decline in health when I request therapy, to help in his recovery and building strength.  I was so angry with this doctor, that I did some research on my own, on the internet.  I was not surprised in what I found.  There are so many people out there, that are going thru the exact same symptoms as Antonio after Botox and the other brands of botulinum toxin shots.  There are many support forums for people damaged by Botox and other botulism toxin injections.  So many people who have horrible symptoms.  Some damaged for many months, some for years and some people who have been permanently damaged and are on disability.  Some people have even died. 

I went to Antonio's pediatrician and spoke with him about Antonio. He said Antonio has all the classic signs of Botulism/Botox overdose.  That it could be up to 48 months before Antonio could be over all the symptoms he is having.  There is nothing that can be done, except for supportive care, till this clears and passes, if it does.  Sigh.  I am so sad for Antonio.  He has always been such a smiley, bright, happy, chatty, young man.  As of today he still can not smile.  He tries to communicate a few times a day and it comes out as a mumble.  I can sometimes understand him but if I missed it, he does not repeat himself.   He can say ya and no but it takes him about 20 seconds to answer me, if he is going to.  He can lift his arm for a moment and move his head from side to side.  He is weak.  We are very concerned for his health heading into cold and flu season.  We are trying to keep his life the same as always, as he is aware and in there.  We are still taking him places and changing his view and environment throughout the day.  Putting in different movies for him, letting him watch his animals and watch the children play.  I will never let him have another Botox shot of any kind.  I just pray for his healing.  For this toxin that is trapped in his muscles to clear from his body.  For the weakness and damage to be healed.  Bless his heart.

William working on his animation videos.
William is doing well.  He has been a great help and support thru the last few months.  He has stepped up to help with the extra care with Antonio and helped do many of Carolyn's chores while she could not.  He has watched children for me so I could devote time to the children who have needed me most and also so I could take children to their doctors appointments alone, so I could really pay attention to what was being said and ask the questions I needed to.  God bless William really well.

Carolyn is doing much better since having the fall that knocked out her front top tooth.  She is in very little pain now and can chew soft foods in the back of her mouth.  So no more pureed food.  Yeah!  She still can not bite using her front teeth, for quite a while, to give her tooth a chance to reattach.  She is back to doing ballet and her normal chores. 
She is going to start riding her pony again once the weather gets better.  It has been a bit wet and rainy here lately.  We also got her results from all the testing that was done by the psychologist.  We learned a lot about Carolyn and can now make the best plans for her future.

Zeke is about to be tested with the school system to see if he qualifies for the autism program, that they have at a school close to us.  They all feel he will qualify.  They have one teacher and five students in it right now.  Tim and I have not decided if we will send him a few days a week or full time.  We are in prayer about it.  We have talked to him about it little and he was emotionless. He is flaccid most of the time, so that was not surprising.  I am praying he will like it and maybe make a friend or two.  He still spends a lot of time making videos as well.  He is such a wonderful young man.  We love him so much and want the world for him. 

Elizabeth has started back to ballet as well.  She is going one day a week and we have a ballet tutor come out to the house one day a week to work with the girls.  So lots of ballet time.  She is still struggling with her behavior and school work.  She has gone thru a growth spurt and is much taller than me now.  She is only 12 so she is going to be tall!
Billy is doing very well lately.  I have started measuring out his meals, by calories, to try to help him have smaller meals and not take so long to eat.  I am also giving him mostly foods he eats faster so he has time to play.  I am hoping to get his mealtimes going faster, so I can start to home school him some this winter.  He is amazing smart and really ready for this.   His behavior has also improved over the last few months.  I can now often give him a warning and he will reconsider what he was going to do.  Praise God! that is wonderful progress.  He is still very active and easily distracted but trying so much harder.

Timothy is doing so well lately.  The whole time we have had him, he has been stuck, in his mind and actions, as a 15 month old child.  He is very immature and unaware of life around him.  In the past few weeks he is starting to put two and three words together and acting more mature.  He is understanding so much  more.  I am praying this will help us in the potty training area, as we have been potty training since February faithfully, with no signs of him making any connections in his mind.  He is finally clapping when he goes in the potty and is aware when he goes.  I know...the simple things in life make my day.  :)  He is still so far behind, in so many areas but Praise God, is starting to make progress now.  He will be three soon, my sweet boy.

Kinsley is doing nothing short of amazing.  God has done such a wonderful work in her life and health.  She is walking!  15 steps is her record right now!  She is eating diced foods and self feeding.  She is cutting her back  molars right now, so that will open up a whole new world of foods for her, as she will be able to really chew instead of just gumming things.  She sleeps thru the night and acts like a toddler in so many ways.  She is behind but progressing steadily.  She definitely has vision issues but her vision is functional in our home environment and will smile at me if I smile at her.  Her right eye has very few optic nerves but her left eye has almost all of them.  So I think she is seeing pretty well with her left eye.  She tips her head a lot when she is watching tv or looking at a book.  She is a joy and our sweetie pie.

Baby "A" is growing fast!  She just turned five months old!  Where has the time gone!  She has rolled over a few times and will stand in her little play saucer.  She sleeps thru the night and takes four bottles a day.  Three meals and a bed time bottle.  She still has anxiety and has intense crying spells but not nearly as often as when she was younger.  It is mostly when she is out of her environment, around new people and when she is over tired.  Evenings are the hardest for her to settle down for sleep.  She still has nursing issues and has trouble latching on her bottles.  She has reflux, gags a lot and has sensory issues in her mouth.  She only eats for me.  If anyone else tries to feed her she screams.  When I do have to be away and Tim tries to feed her, it take him an hour or more.  Her biological mom is out of jail and baby "A" has been having twice a month visits with her.  Sadly, her mom has done nothing on her case plan at all.  Baby "A" has a panel review this month.  I pray for salvation for her mom and that she makes better life choices.

We as a family are doing fine. 
I can see that this fall, life is going to settle down some and we will have a better routine.  I think we need some home time and good solid quiet time together.  Now that I don't have a very young infant anymore and "A" has matured and grown some, I have times when she is playing and not needing me to feed her every few hours.  So I am getting some things done around the house again.  I am even feeling up to making some homemade meals again for supper, which has been nice for all of us.  Tim and I are also getting better sleep, as we, for the first time in a year and a half, don't have any children sleeping in our room anymore.  I am a light sleeper and every little baby noise wakes me.  It is now very quiet in our room and Tim and I are enjoying being able to watch a movie together, on movie night again, in bed together, with out worries of waking a sleeping baby.

The weather is cooling and we are going to take the next nice week off from school, to winterize the property.  Things like clean out the whole barn and get more hay, have the chimney cleaned and stack wood on the back porch, clean out all the flower and vegetable beds and put manure in them all, cut all the brush down along the fence lines and things of that nature.  I have started fall cleaning inside of the house already.  It feels good to purge out a lot of things we don't need and use anymore and de-clutter a bit.

God is so good to us always and life is good.  We will always have things going on here to work thru and things that need serious prayer.  It is part of having such a large family, with many children that have varying needs.  We always feel blessed and feel God helping us.

May the Lord God in heaven, reach His mighty hand down to help you in the areas you need Him.  May He lead and guide you as you live and grow in Him.

John 1:14  And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth.